Good Riddance / Longview
As my time at UNC at Hussman and in Gary Kayye's class comes to a close, I find myself reflecting on what led me here and what lies ahead. Although my journey to this point was longer than most, taking the scenic route has been invaluable to me. It's easy to get caught up in what's next, but looking back on everything I've accomplished is just as important.
When I finished high school, university wasn't an option for me due to financial constraints. Instead of letting that hold me back, I took it upon myself to seek out adventures in everyday life. I lived at the beach, ran a successful bar next to an award-winning music venue, and when my friends from high school were graduating college, I joined the Air Force. During that time, while they were jumping into their careers, I gained invaluable life experiences. I had the opportunity to travel to over 20 different countries. I got the chance to go bungee jumping in Korea and celebrate a world cup final in Belgium. I sought out mentorships and even got enrolled in leadership courses. I volunteered with kids and worked with some of the best people from all walks of life whom I would never have met had I not enlisted.
When it was time for me to leave the Air Force, I wasn't sure if going back to school was the right decision since I would be older than most. I briefly considered instead just jumping into a similar government career and relying just on my work experience. My supervisor reminded me that at the end of it, I would be in my thirties regardless, so I might as well get there with a degree. And he was right. Although I initially felt behind compared to my peers, I soon realized that my unconventional route had imparted to me skills that couldn't be learned in a textbook.
Returning to school as a more mature student with a better outlook and support system allowed me to approach my education with the right mindset and fully focus on my goals. My time at UNC not only allowed me to explore my creative passions but also gave me more tools to add to my toolbox, making me a more well-rounded individual.
If you're debating returning to school or taking a break, remember that it's okay to take the scenic route. Don't stress about the path you take, as all experiences will add up and get you where you need to be. You're going to be 30, 40, or 50 no matter what, so you might as well get there with the experiences that matter.
As someone who took the long way around, I feel extremely accomplished in reaching this milestone and being the first person in my immediate family to get a degree. I'm excited about what the future holds and can't wait to embark on my next adventure. So, take the scenic route, get your head in the game, and learn things outside of the classroom. Your experiences will make all the difference when you return to your career or education with a fresh perspective.